Lube Guide & Best Sellers

Water-based lube is light, natural-feeling and washes off easily. It is typically compatible with condoms and most toys, but it can dry out and need reapplying. Silicone lube is silky, lasts much longer and works in the shower or bath, but it stays on skin and sheets and it is generally not recommended for use with silicone toys. Hybrid lube blends the two: it feels silky and lasts longer than water-based but typically cleans up more easily than pure silicone. Formulas vary, so always check the label.

Oil-based lubes feel rich and are popular for massage, but oil can weaken latex condoms, so they are generally not recommended together. Oils can also stain fabric and are harder to rinse away. If you use condoms, check the lube label to see what it is compatible with.

If you are not sure, a water-based lube is a popular place to start. It is typically compatible with condoms and most toys, and it rinses off easily. You can always try silicone or hybrid later if you want something that lasts longer.

Silicone generally lasts the longest, followed by hybrid. Water-based is absorbed and dries faster, so you may need to reapply. A few drops of water, or a little more lube, can bring it back to life.

Water-based, silicone and hybrid lubes are typically safe with latex condoms, but formulas vary, so always check the product label and the condom package. Oil-based lubes are generally not recommended with latex condoms, since oil can weaken latex.

It is generally not recommended. Silicone lube can slowly break down the surface of silicone toys, leaving them sticky or damaged. A water-based lube is typically the better match for silicone toys. If you are not sure, check the toy maker's guidance, test a small spot on the toy first, or ask us.

Hard, non-porous toys like glass, stainless steel and hard ABS plastic are typically compatible with most types of lube. Softer or porous materials like jelly, TPE and TPR (including many strokers) are generally best with water-based lube. Always check the toy maker's guidance.

Silicone is a popular choice, since it does not wash away as easily as water-based lube. Be careful, because it can make tub and shower floors very slippery.

Glycerin is an ingredient that helps lube feel slick and stay moist. Some people find it irritating, and some people who are prone to yeast infections prefer to avoid it. If you have had trouble before, look for a glycerin-free formula and talk with your healthcare provider.

Look for lubes labeled natural, sensitive, hypoallergenic, or free of glycerin, parabens, fragrance and dyes. Our Natural & Sensitive best sellers above are a good place to start. You can also test a small dab on your inner arm first and wait a few minutes to see how your skin reacts.

The vagina is naturally slightly acidic, around a pH of 3.8 to 4.5. Lubes that are close to that range may be gentler on delicate tissue. Lubes that pull a lot of water out of the tissue (high osmolality) can cause irritation in some people. Labels that say pH-balanced or isotonic are good clues, and our staff can point you to options.

Not necessarily. Flavored lubes often contain sugars, which some people find irritating when used internally. They are popular for oral play and external use. Warming and tingling lubes use ingredients that some people find irritating, so try a small amount first and rinse if it bothers you.

For any health questions about using lube, such as irritation, infections or other concerns, please talk to your healthcare provider.

The anus does not make its own lubrication, so use plenty and reapply often. Thick water-based lubes and silicone lubes are both popular choices. A water-based lube is typically the better match for silicone toys. Be careful with numbing creams, because they can hide pain that tells you to slow down or stop.

Masturbation creams are made for solo play, and most are for external use. They tend to be thick, and many are oil-based or say on the label that they are not for use with condoms. If you use condoms or have a partner, choose a lube that is labeled for that. If you are not sure, check the label or ask us.

Choose a flavored lube or oral cream made to be tasted, and check the label to make sure it is intended for oral use.

More than you think. Start with a quarter-sized amount and add more whenever things start to feel dry or sticky. Too much is rarely a problem, and it often makes everything more comfortable.

We do not recommend it. Lotions and petroleum jelly can irritate sensitive tissue and may weaken latex condoms. Saliva dries quickly and is not a good long-term replacement. A real lube is made for the job.

Yes. Check the date on the bottle, store it somewhere cool and dry, and throw it away if the smell, color or texture changes.

Our team is happy to help you find the right one. Just ask in the store, or send us a message online.